OHMALAGAHHHH!!!

I was going to post a blog about me about to have jaw surgery in 15 days
but i wanted to find a video that i can upload so we can all see
i never watched a video until today and honestly after i've seen it
OHMYKSJGOIAJSGIJASDLGIJASIJGSDGOIS.
i really wasn't ever scared because i know i want it
i still do but after watching the video, im sortof freaked out.
it's soo soon! and i remember my orthodontist saying,
"Are you ready? Not only physically or emotionally, you also have to be
pshycologically ready to look different"
and my eyes shot BIG. am i really psychologically ready?
i hope so, i honestly don't know if i am or not but i know i want it.
I'm going to miss my underbite. even though it was hard to eat,
and it probably was the cause of my "say it dont' spray it" accidents :(
LOL (cuz it was like a bowl for my spit). i'm going to miss it.
a lot of people were like "Why are you getting it? you look fine!"
lol well it's like ever since i got braces, it made my under bite worse.
so im getting corrective jaw surgery for both my top and bottom jaw.
it's going to happen i think at 8:30am on Friday, May 15th, 2009 at Rouge Valley Hospital
i am excited and now a bit scared. LOL.
i can't believe it's soo soon!
i literally have 15 days with my underbite before it's gone!
it's been a great 18 years living with you my dear! :)

kiss goodnight.

so i found something on the internet, and it was pretty random but i sortof liked it. i thought it was sweet and adorable so i decided, hey, why not post it, i won't be able to find the link to it anyways so lets post it here =) haha. i'm not married, obviously not, but i am in a relationship and i think this would be soo cute.


Always Kiss Each Other Good Night
Don't let the magic fade after years of marriage. Sandra Magsamen, author of "Living Artfully" and an expert on making meaningful moments, offers advice on how to make love last ─ including ending each day with a smooch, for real.

If you ask 100 people to share a bit of advice regarding how to make a happy marriage, I'll bet you'll get 100 different thoughts on the subject. I'm pretty sure that everything from housekeeping to home wrecking would be covered in the responses you'll hear.

In my experience, the advice people share comes mostly from their own lives, and more often than not it's advice they might want to consider taking themselves. The advice I have to impart certainly falls in that category. I've been married 26 years and, without oversharing, can honestly say it's been a pretty darn fine ride. Don't get me wrong — there have been difficult days, lessons learned and obstacles faced, but I've always known that's pretty much how life goes.

The way I see it, life is a journey. Sometimes it's stormy and you get caught in a downpour, sometimes you dance in the sunlight and occasionally you get to see a big, bright, beautiful rainbow. What makes the journey so interesting is who travels with you and how you decide to travel. I'm pretty sure the bumper sticker that reads, "The joy of the journey is not in reaching the destination but in the ride," is one of those simple truths and is most assuredly an ancient wisdom.
If along the journey you meet someone you want to marry, my advice in a nutshell is, "Never forget to kiss each other good night." I know it seems like surprisingly basic and pleasant advice, but it is also time-tested and downright good for you.

Let's face it: We are running so fast through life. Our days are packed with work, chores, obligations, dirty dishes, laundry, phone calls, text messages, the Internet, e-mails, high gas prices, low stock prices and more to do than we want to. Although we have every intention of putting our partners first, sometimes we get swept up in the tsunami of life and they get washed out with our good intentions.

Without knowing it, we suddenly find ourselves floating in a sea of things to do and, although not intended, our relationships are taken for granted. We don't plan it — we really don't even see it or feel it — but before we know it, we have floated away from each other.

When you never forget to kiss each other good night, you create a life raft, and you can't float away so quickly because you acknowledge each other, pause, connect and express your love. The golden rule seems to work here. If you treat your partner the way you want to be treated, you'll have a really great shot at creating the kind of marriage that you want. If you stretch throughout the day my advice of never forgetting to kiss each other good night and create small ways to put love in your life, you'll build intimacy and closeness and your kindness and care will honor your partner and grow your relationship.